The site's been suffering more and more from Trackback pings. Things that put a link to another site from here, so that the Google ranking picks up. Fortunately there's some excellent backroom stuff on here that blocks most of it.
So, just out of interest, I did a scan of Google to see if there was any sites linking to here. And I found this:
It's the seventh or so posting down the thread. What's amazing is that someone I've never met, in another country, has found Jules site and found some comfort and support from reading the stories. It suddenly reminds me how important sharing is, if only to let the rest of the world know, we're all not alone.